As a life coach, I believe it's important to recognize that clients will have varied, and often very different, requirements and expectations when coming to see you.
Some love the process of working through the programme and can enjoy powerful moments of self-realisation, while others tend to prefer free-form sessions where they discuss whatever is uppermost in their mind for the day. Some clients may want to spend several sessions brainstorming their potential goal and then be content to "go it alone" once their direction is set.
By way of example, Client A needed help with growing a new business, keeping forward momentum, putting daily action steps in place and still maintaining a healthy balance between work input, family and personal growth.
Client B was focused on a health goal and also maintaining direction with business ideals. We worked on helping her apply structure to her day to enable her to balance all her tasks.
Client C investigated stepping back into the working world after the birth of her children and this culminated in her following a passion which still allowed her time to devote to her young family.
Client D started by following a spiritual path leading to the discovery of a potential new career which was in line with their passion.
Certain clients may choose to work on a few life areas at one time which could include emotional, health, personal development, vocation, family, partner, money and spirituality. In my experience, an improvement or growth in any one life area has a positive spin-off in other areas as well.
Of paramount importance in any coaching-client relationship is the establishment and maintenance of a good rapport with each other. This, in my opinion, is more important than the content of the discussion. The coach-client rapport and the flexibility of the coach to adapt the programme to the client's needs, enable the client to get the most benefit from the coaching process.
The programme offers the use of tools for good goal setting and breaking down the main goals into achieveable milestones; while uncovering and working through a client's positive strengths and beliefs as well as identifying potential stumbling blocks in their belief system. The tools also offer a method for approaching life's many challenges and helps clients align their goals with their values.
As a coach it has been a pleasure and a privilege to walk with my special clients on their journeys and it is always gratifying to share in their celebration when they achieve what they set out to do.
Heartfelt thanks to my clients past and present for their commitment, sharing and motivation.
Shereen is a New Insights certified coach, practising as Living Balance.
Permission has been obtained from the clients mentioned above to briefly describe their coaching focus.
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